Should I Get Back Together With My Ex? Learn What to Do When You Are Feeling Very Confused

I've never seen the X-Men but I'm sure it's about a bunch of dudes that meet for coffee and tell harrowing tales of how they've been wronged.
Sometimes, it's up to you to save the day against these ex-men or ex-women but before you do, skim over this manifesto to know if it's truly your destiny.
Step 1: Did You Have Fun?: There are certain qualities that Emma Frost brings to the table but in the end all you might remember is her insistence on turning the heat up in your apartment.
In order to know if you should get back with your ex, remember both the good times and the bad.
Step 2: Was It A Healthy Relationship: Wolverine was a cool cat but why did he insist on yelling at you when you mentioned trimming his sideburns? If your relationship was healthy, you should definitely try to get back with your ex but if it was chaotic, now's the time to step away.
Step 3: Did You Grow: When you first started dating, it involved sitting on a park bench, gawking at mutants.
In the end, was that still the only thing you guys did? Some relationships are dead ends and you should look in your heart to know if there's room for growth or if you were a one mutant-gawking trick pony.
Step 4: Did You Stop Growing: Perhaps your partnership met an immovable object that you couldn't overcome like moving in with each other or the lack of a proposal for 9 years.
In order to know if you should get back, evaluate if this speed bump can be grated.
Step 5: How's It Going To Play Out: Most people have an idea in their head about how a union is going to play out.
Feel free to recognize yours and don't change the script to suit your favor.
The odds are you know that the habitual adulterer with the shady ice cream business is never going to change so just accept it and move on.
Step 6: It's Not A Solo Decision: You might say, "Fine, I think today's the day me and Halle Berry get back together" but her decision is solely going to rely on if the restraining order is enforced and her immunity to chloroform.
When deciding to get back with your ex, remember that it's a two-way street.
Step 7: You Might As Well: The worst thing in life is saying "I should have" unless you're Stan Lee and were thinking of casting Rosanne Barr as Storm.
The only way you'll know how your life is going to play out is by trying to fit the puzzle together and if you happen to be putting a round piece in a square hole, move on to the next one that fits.