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Tips To Save Your Relationship And Prevent Breakups
Then before long, many begin to wonder where the love has gone.
This articles describes some of the simple laws of love, which, when practiced, keep love going strong.
So many times relationships start out wonderfully, the person is joyous and feels as if they've found, "the one".
Then as time passes, they begin to wonder where has the love gone? Many feel lost when this happens.
They do not know what went wrong, or what steps need to be taken to make things right again.
1.
Acknowledge the Reasons for your Rocky Period.
Most of the times, couples break up because they are having problems or feel they can no longer get along, but never really acknowledge what the true problem was.
It is important that you both know what the root of your conflicts are so that you both see a clear picture of what is going on and where it all came from and why.
2.
Be Rational, Reasonable & Calm.
When a couple is experiencing conflicts and hard times, there all kinds of emotions flying around, which can cause one or both of you to act irrationally, and say or do things that will only worsen your already frustrating situation.
Though it can be very challenging, it is essential that you make a real effort to stay calm and think rationally, as well as speak rationally.
Your partner may be acting completely uncooperative, and that is exactly when you need to take charge of the situation and make sure that things do not get out of hand.
3.
Agree to Disagree.
The next time you and your partner feel ready to attempt another rational discussion, be sure to agree to disagree first.
It is important that you both remember that although you may be one as a couple, you are still both very much individuals with your own thoughts and beliefs about certain things.
Make an agreement that being different does mean you both are incompatible, but what it does mean is that you are both unique in your own ways and will respect your differences and use those differences as a way to better your relationship instead of trying to change each other.
4.
Work as a Team.
Saving a Relationship and maintaining it requires effort from both of you, not just one of you.
If your partner shows no interest or effort in making your relationship work, it would be best to leave him or her alone until he or she figures out just how important saving the relationship is.
However, it could very well be that they realize how important sharing their life with you is, and will eventually come to you-ready to give full cooperation in mending your wounded relationship.
5.
Take it Slowly.
Once you and your partner have smoothed things out, be sure to take things slowly.
Rushing back into things can make your relationship an easy target to the same problems that caused your rockiness in the first place.
Have a serious conversation together about what happened and work together on how you can prevent the same conflicts in the future and/or how you can handle it differently in the future if it does come to surface again.
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Save your relationship now before its too late.