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They ruin their chances of getting their ex back by reacting without thinking.
They go on bended knees almost to get back with their ex.
This can often have the opposite effect and turn your ex off you for good.
Here are 5 tips if you really want your ex back...
1.
Don't make rash decisions.
You are way too emotional after a break up to think clearly.
And you need to think clearly.
Blundering around calling, texting, e-mailing and writing letters begging for them get back together again can be counter-productive.
Don't come across as weak and grovelling.
Your ex won't appreciate it.
2.
Don't dwell on the past.
It's gone and can't be changed.
But, at least, learn from your mistakes so that should the two of you get back together again, you don't repeat them.
3.
Act in a confident, calm and cool manner.
Show that you are completely in charge of your emotions and with what's going on in your life.
Show your ex that you are quite capable of surviving without them.
This will encourage them to take you seriously and perhaps see you in a different light.
4.
While still being the same essential 'you', try to figure out what might have contributed to the break up.
Did you 'let yourself go'? Were you / are you out of shape? What about your appearance? Your clothes? Make changes that could make you much more attractive again.
Remember, your ex was attracted to you before, so bring back that sparkle and excitement again.
5.
You need an action plan.
Don't dive in head first without one.
And this plan needs to include how you deal with every aspect of the process to get your ex back.
The wrong words and actions at the wrong time can scupper any chance of getting your ex back.
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