When love still exists: - How to win your ex back

You had a very romantic relationship and he has since deserted you. But, putting all that aside, you still are drawn towards him .You are suffering greatly from the break up and after all you have both been through, you feel you must make a last effort to bring both of you together again. So, this is the way "how to win your ex back."

Take some time making a serious analysis and make a decision as to how you feel what you wish to do. Are you really certain you want him back or is it that after some time together you have got into an easy routine with him. You see, if the relationship is to be a real one there must some real love and this does not mean easy routine. So, should you feel that you that you still have really deep feelings for him you should read on.

The next step is to try to decipher what he is thinking about you does he feel the same way as you do about him. And the difficulties you had in your relationship. Did they relate to problems that you are both able to resolve? If they related to lack of communication, organizing how you spend your time or finer tuning of your different objectives you should be able to settle them. If the love that was has now disappeared it may be better to take things as they really are and start moving on.

You are sure that you both love each other and sincerely believe that you can make a go of things the next time round. Think about what you did when you first met, things he liked and which over time you have let drop.

You change when you go out with someone. Your partner wants you to be with him so you have less time for your previous pastimes and your girlfriends. Are you certain that you are still so careful to make sure you are always looking great, like you were when you first went out with him? If you are to succeed"to win your ex back" you must return to being that person who took him off his feet when he first knew you.

Show him that you can get on perfectly well without him. Even if you desperately want him back, don't let him see it! When he sees that you can manage all right without him he is going to be more respectful and admiring of you and he will be more likely to want to get back with you.

Start to be more independent and do the things that give you pleasure. Make sure you see more of your family and your friends and take on pastimes you like. Generally you will become an improved person, who he will notice more, and this again will help you to "win your ex back".

When you meet your ex, wear something you know he will like, perhaps something he bought you. Talk about you common activities and so use your common souvenirs to "win your ex back".

Invite him to come to informal events and tell he can come accompanied if he chooses

Finally, when you are trying to "win your ex back," be yourself and behave naturally.

If he is still loves you he will appreciate what he first saw and what appealed to him about you in the first place...

These are only the first steps to "win your ex back". They were the first steps I took when I lost the love of my life and they were not my ideas. I asked T ‘Dub Jackson when I could not see how I could get back the person I loved.

T 'Dub' has written a simple, easy to follow plan in his book "The magic of making up". And now we are back together and more in love than ever before.

Joe Bisley

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