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You probably ended a relationship that was dear to you, but please remember: Do not try to blame anybody; Maybe it was that little mistake you did; Maybe it was your partner-Tell yourself "It doesn't matter", because channeling that energy into solving the problem is always more productive than laying blame and wallowing in bed.
The fact that you looked up this article shows that you have taken some effort to seek advice, and I really hope my 4 tips will give you the key to getting her back.
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Find Out Why The Relationship Ended, And Fix The Problem Women end relationships because of a plethora of reasons, but some of them are very common-Take for instance "Being appreciated".
Most of the time women leave their guys because they start to feel less and less appreciated in their relationship, and it is not uncommon to see the girl go for another guy who showers her with attention.
Slowly shower her back with attention and she might change her mind about leaving you! 2.
Relax And Give Her Space This is the most counter intuitive piece of advice you will ever hear, but trust me, it works! Once your relationship has ended, you are so filled with emotion that you feel tempted to text her, call her or visit her to clarify things-but remember that you are not fully in control of your emotions.
You might say something wrong, do something stupid or show how desperate and unreliable you are-worsening your chances of getting her back for good.
A separation of about a month should calm you down, and give you time to prepare for your next course of action.
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Bring The Fire Back Into The Relationship Think back when you just fell in love: Were you attracted to the girl who left you a great impression, or were you attracted to the emo girl who does not care about the world? This is why you should do some "repairing" to yourself once you broke up.
Sure, it is hard to do so when you are depressed but remember: Girls are attracted to confident guys.
Get yourself a wardrobe makeover and give yourself a new look.
Exercise often to keep yourself in good shape, and to reduce the chances of depression.
As people associate memories with images, sounds and smells, going back to her in your old self will only trigger the bad memories-By giving yourself a new look, you are giving her a different way to look at you.
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Prepare Yourself For The Big Day You want to get her back for good one day but before that, when was the last time you dated a girl? Since you have not done so for some time, give yourself a chance to hone your dating skills before finding your ex-you probably do not want to date her and show how unworthy you are again right? There are tons of opportunities out there for you: Speed dating, dating clubs or even via introductions by friends.
Find a partner to build up your confidence with, and on that day you are together with your ex, show the confident man in you and get her back for good.
All the best!
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