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Will Me and My Ex Get Back Together? Know This Before You End Up Wasting a Lot of Time
Well, as they say, things can only come true if you wish it hard enough and act decisively.
Here are some moves that will get your ex back together with you.
Remove your ex from that high pedestal The only way you can stop obsessing about your ex is to remove him or her from that high pedestal that you yourself have created for your ex.
This will allow you to look at other important aspects of your life while allowing you to think and act in a mature manner.
Stay in touch with mutual friends Even though you might be hurting from inside you can still remain in touch with mutual friends.
They will not only support you in your time of need but also provide you with vital information on your ex, although you should not try to force information out or force your friends to choose sides.
Focus on yourself for a change Your past might have only involved doting over your ex but since you are alone for some time, you should make it a point to focus on yourself only.
You should find a job or start a business, involve yourself in a hobby, party a little, work out a lot, and in short keep yourself busy enough to turn healthy, wealthy and independent.
Your ex is bound to notice this change and fear of being left alone will now creep into his or her frightened mind.
Ask for a small favor and watch your ex's reaction You should also test if your ex too is feeling the pain of separation by asking for help in a small way.
If your ex is quite eager to help you out and looks at you with lost eyes then the fire is well and truly alive in his or her heart too, although your ex might not openly show it.
Remove all anger from the current situation Apologizing for mistakes made by you in writing is a good way to remove all anger from the current situation.
Do not ramble on in your letter but simply state facts in a brief manner while apologizing genuinely.
Your ex too might apologize on his or her end and get the ball rolling towards a reunion.
Send out feelers for a meeting Once you realize that your ex has mellowed down enough to talk calmly with you then without wasting any more time, send out feelers through mutual friends for a heart-to-heart meeting to sort out all issues once and for all.
Think about the future while promising in the present Although your reunion meeting might be emotional, you should remember to look towards the future when you make any promises.
You should be truly genuine while making promises and also ensure that your ex too does the same.