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At that instant, I understood.
It was her own way of saying she already fell out of love, and it's too late to do anything about it now," recalls Brandon.
Relationships are always exciting during the first few months.
There are just so much things to do and details to discover.
Several couples manage to keep things going smoothly in their relationship.
Others, however, are not as lucky.
The truth is that breakups reveal much about a relationship.
Brandon was shocked when the lady of his life closed the door on him.
He can attest various reasons for why they began "going in separate directions.
" He was busy with work; his exhaustion at the end of the day didn't buy him time with his lady love; he didn't know what she was up to during most days.
At times when they had gone out, he was there physically; but his mind often wandered about meeting tomorrow's deadlines.
"I only began to truly appreciate what she meant to me after she had gone.
It beats me everyday.
I want her back," Brandon sighs.
When the last flames of passion have been extinguished, is there ever a chance of rekindling a relationship? What things will have to be done in order to keep from stumbling in the dark? If you are another Brandon yourself, then you must be just as psyched up in finding ways to get your partner back.
This task is easy, especially now that you've narrowed down the reason for the breakup.
The key lies in mixing two things: how your relationship began and how it ended.
This means doing the sweet things that won her over and avoiding those which sent her away.
Look back on the days when you were still wooing her.
Perhaps you had flowers delivered to her office on a normal day, or you inserted a thoughtful note in between the pages of her organizer.
Though you need not to do things as grand as these, you should exert the same effort and sincerity this time that you're wooing her back into your life.
Calling to ask how she is, at the very least, offers her the thought that you still regard her as important.
Moving on, go the extra mile of spending time in her world.
This means getting to know her friends better, accompanying her in doing things she loves, and paying attention to what she says.
In addition, be a good listener.
Show her that she can rely on you to be her confidant.
These things show her that you are willing to devote time and care for her.
Finally, secure her forgiveness.
Formally telling her how sorry you are can soften her heart into considering you again.
Even more, being forgiven allows you to leave things in the past and to start anew.
Express to her your commitment of being the best self you can be for her.
At times, all it takes is a rededication of love to your partner in order to build your relationship.
Care and devotion reignites the first flames of passion.
Soon, you and you fellow Brandon's will be out of the dark and into the light of your lady's love.
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