Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back - Show Him How Important You Are To His Life

When your guy tells you he needs a time-out from the relationship, your emotions start on a roller coaster. You can feel humiliation, resentment, sadness, and then panic. You never thought it would happen. You have somehow lost the man you love. Then you lose all ability to reason. Your heart takes over and off you go crying and screaming that you cannot live without him. You know this is the wrong way to make your ex boyfriend want you back, but you cannot help yourself. You are right, it is the wrong thing to do because you are making yourself look needy and desperate when there is no need to do so.  

You should be doing just the opposite. To get your ex back, you have to make him see how important you are in his life. The only way to do this is to make him see what life is without you. If you are constantly calling, emailing, and sending him text messages, he cannot possibly miss your presence. You have to gather every ounce of strength and determination and cut off all contact with him for several weeks. You need to create a void in his life and make him conscious of it. The best way to make sure that you stay away from him is to go somewhere out of town. Take a vacation or visit relatives you have neglected during your relationship. This alone will take away your urge to call him at all hours and plead with him to take you back.

If you can do this, it will give him the opportunity to miss you and see how important you are to his life. Remember absence makes the heart grow fonder and your ex boyfriend is no exception. The fact that he has not heard from you for a while will cause him to think about you even more. He will begin thinking about your good points and the ones that caused him to breakup with you will seem petty. Then his imagination will take over and he will imagine you with another guy. If he still loves you, this will drive him frantic, and he will feel the rejection you felt when he broke up with you.

You have shown him how important you are to his life and he will not rest until he gets you back. He will come looking for you, but you do not want to be too eager to fall back in his arms. It might be hard to do because you went through all of this to make your ex boyfriend want you back, but you want to make sure he has learned his lesson. So be a little hard to get and you will keep him forever.