How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Forgive You - Regain His Love For You

When your boyfriend broke up with you, it was easy to put the blame on him. But in your heart you know that the blame was more yours than his. It might make you feel better at the time to place the blame elsewhere, but sooner or later we have to realize that we all make mistakes and you are no different from anyone else. But no matter who was to blame, the breakup happened and if you want your ex back, things are going to have to be made right. Instead of dwelling on yourself, to get your ex boyfriend to forgive you and regain his love for you can be done best by looking at the breakup from his point of view.

If you feel that the breakup problems were mostly your fault, then you will need to adapt the way you go about getting your ex boyfriend to forgive you to the severity of the problem. If you were inconsiderate and he got his feelings hurt, then all you should need is a sincere apology to get things started back on the road to recovery. But if it was more serious such as cheating was the cause, then your climb back into his esteem might be much steeper. An action like that can indeed make a man feel betrayed and as if you put a knife in his heart. He trusted and respected you, and he feels you have made him look like a fool.

You can hardly blame him for not wanting to have anything to do with you. Think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed. Your best asset is time, for every hurt loses its sting over time. Your best tactic at this time is to give him the space and time to heal his wounds.

If you try to push him to forgive you by crying and begging it will not work, instead it will just keep the wound from healing. He is not going to forgive and forget because of a few tears. You could send an email or text and apologize for your misdeed, but do not call him or try to do anything face to face.

This is going to take time and patience, and if you love him enough, in time his love for you will overcome his hurt. When that happens you will get your ex boyfriend back and regain his love for you.