How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back? - The Answer is Here

Maintain Your Regular Life After a break up that was hard to go through, it's not uncommon for someone to feel down, to feel as though they don't want to do much but sit around and basically be lazy.
This is not a good idea, in my opinion.
I understand that it is a hard thing to go through and I understand that you may not feel like doing anything or going out anywhere, however, I believe you should try to maintain your regular life as much as possible.
Do you often go out with friends? If you do, then keep doing it, go out and have a good time instead of sitting at home alone.
Do you go to the gym and exercise regularly? If you do, then don't stop doing it because you feel down about the break up.
If you sit around doing nothing everyday and think about the relationship constantly, you're not only going to bring yourself down but you're also going to give off the impression to others that you can't handle hard situations.
This is quite similar to the point about reminding your ex about your good points, what you're basically doing here is showing that you are a strong person and even though you have just went through a break up, you are strong enough to keep going.
It will also serve another purpose, it will show your ex that you don't NEED them, now, notice the emphasis on the word need, it does not mean that you don't WANT them, just that you don't need them.
This is going into the principles of attraction (which I'll talk about more later).
What do you think is more attractive: 1.
) Someone who breaks down and sits at home everyday feeling miserable after a break up? Or 2.
) Someone who picks themselves up and continues living their normal life no matter what's thrown at them? I've already talked about being strong and staying positive but this is slightly different, I mean, you can be strong and positive but not feel like doing things like going out with friends or going to the gym.
You don't want your ex to think they have control over you and how you go about living your life, if they see that you have stopped living the way you normally would then it shows that they have a big affect on you (not necessarily a good thing).
When you continue to do the things you enjoy, the things you normally would do, it sort of sends a message to your ex saying "I don't NEED you to be happy".
That can say a lot about your character.
A lot of guys would, in this type of situation, break down and be miserable for weeks or maybe even months after the break up.
You can show that you are strong enough to live your life no matter what anyone else does.
This may seem quite insignificant, however, it can be quite effective, in many cases.