Be Comfortable in Your Power

Do you know how to be in a relationship? Can you take control without being controlling? Are you comfortable using your powers? It's seems easy to answer yes, but control is not what you think it is.
The old days are gone and it's not all about waiting for your future husband to do all the courting, now it's about women being comfortable in power.
Love used to be about waiting for that man who found you and wanted you to be his wife.
Life doesn't work that way anymore and looking for a housewife is an outdated mindset.
If you want him, you have to be comfortable in your power to take control.
The easiest way to control him is making him miss you.
Don't be around just for him and keep the calendar open in case he wants to do something.
Go out with your best friends, enjoy some "me" time, or spend time visiting family.
You want him to miss you when you're gone.
No one person should be controlling the relationship.
Both of you are capable of arranging dates and being the first one to call.
The 1920's are over and it's time to feel comfortable with you power to go after something you really want.
You're in it together so take turns driving.
It's uncommon, but maybe you two need some rules and boundary lines.
This can include waiting on sex until a certain number of dates, taking turns to make dates or pick the movie, a day for you each to do your own thing with friends, or simple guidelines you need one another to follow like taking it slow.
When one of you is doing it all then it's not a team effort.
There are two of you that can work together and take initiative.
Be the one to make the first kiss or invite him in.
There is nothing wrong with a woman being comfortable in her power to make a move.
It is 2010 after all.