How to Get Your Ex Back With Three Easy Steps

Break-ups happen, and many times they happen for good reasons.
If a former partner is violent or abusive, it's best to never go back, no matter how lonely you may feel.
But when a good romance ends too soon, for whatever reason, it is sometimes possible to mend it.
If you're right for each other, it can even be the basis for a lasting relationship.
If that's your situation, here's how to get your ex back - in three easy steps.
The first step is to analyze where your romance went wrong.
Sometimes, fear of commitment or fear of getting too serious can drive a man to sabotage a good relationship with real potential.
This is sometimes the basis of infidelity.
If you know in your heart that you're meant for each other, and you're certain you can forgive, forget and move on, it is sometimes possible to get your ex back in these circumstances.
Did fear of losing him make you try to become the person you thought he wanted, instead of the person he chose? This is a common mistake in women with shaky self-esteem, but also one of the easiest scenarios to fix.
The simple answer is - be the woman he fell in love with again - in other words, be yourself.
Go places you enjoyed together, where you think he might be, and have a good time where he can see.
Wear outfits he liked when you were together, if you think you might run into him somewhere.
The second step is call just to check on him, and say, "Hi.
" It's important to sound happy - not to cry or throw accusations.
Whatever you do, don't tell him how much you miss him or how lonely you've been.
You don't want to sound desperate.
Keep the conversation short and positive.
The idea behind this is to get him thinking about you, and the good times you shared.
If he asks you to meet him, even to join in with an activity with friends, accept.
If not, call him back in a week and suggest a get-together yourself.
When you do manage to arrange a get-together, the third step is to out of your way to look your ravishing best for him.
Be happy, confident, yourself, and, most importantly at this point, limit contact.
Ever heard the phrase, leave them wanting more? That's what this step is all about.
Don't fall too easily back into his arms.
You don't want a one night stand, you want a relationship.
When he calls again, and he will if there's a chance, remember to be honest about what you want.