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That deep dark pit from which there seems to be no escape.
You know what I'm talking about.
It always starts with "Well see there is this girl".
If you are lucky you come to understand that this girl has no romantic interest in you what so ever and you never tel her how you feel.
But if your like most of us guys at some point you reached the breaking point and just had to tell her how you felt.
So you did something romantic, told her how much you care, and she gave you some version of the lets just be friends speech.
It sucks I know because I was there a time or two before I learned how to make myself an attractive sexual guy and make sure girls know that I am.
I'm going to give you a road map to getting out of the friend zone.
But let me first say two things.
First this doesn't always work.
Some women no matter how hard you try never will change there viewpoint on you.
If it doesn't work you need to be prepared to walk away and go find a girl that will give you the kind of love you deserve.
Second understand that this is a drastic measure but its also the only possible way to do it and that by doing this you are risking the friendship.
There is no way around it you must be prepared to lose the girl if you want the chance at keeping her.
1.
Never admit your true feelings.
If you already have you need to do some back peddling and get her thinking that you no longer have romantic feelings for her.
You need to give her the equivalent of the let's just be friends speech.
2.
You can't continue to be available to her.
If you keep hanging out and keep talking and keep letting her treat you like her guy pal that is all you will ever be.
Break off contact for an extended period of time.
Months at least if not longer.
Only after you do this can you move on to step three.
3.
Date other women.
You do this for couple of reasons.
First it gives you much needed confidence and experience with women.
Second It triggers her jealousy buttons.
Shes sees you having fun with another woman and she may wonder what its like to date you.
Third it shows pre-selection.
Other women want you so there must be something worth having.
4.
Ramp up your physical contact.
Touch is an integral part of the dating and attraction process.
Start slow but keep touching her.
If you don't know how to do this check out my blog for a few do's and dont's.
5.
Qualify her.
She must see you as a man of higher social status.
This leads her into a pursuit frame where she is after you instead of you being after her.
6.
Be a sexual guy.
She must see you as attractive and sexual for her to want to date you.
You can also bring up someone you have fun with and describe it as having a deep connection.
This leads her to wonder what it would be like.
7.
Push/Pull You want her always wondering what your thinking.
One minute your pushing her away because your not into her and the next she has become attractive to you.
Push pull tactics are a very powerful tool in seduction and I Highly recommend that you read up on them.
8.
Pull the trigger.
Try pulling her in for a hug and lock eye contact.
If she doesn't pull away kiss her.
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