How to Overcome The Feeling Of Rejection After A Breakup And Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

When your ex boyfriend told you he wanted to take a break, you couldn't believe what he was saying. How could he just stop loving you and walk away? Since that time you have cried a river of tears and asked yourself a million questions, but no matter what you do, it is hard to get over the feeling of rejection. You sit alone for hours wondering what went wrong and how you can get your ex boyfriend back.

However if you want to get your ex back, you will have to stop thinking and start acting. You shouldn't crawl away by yourself, but you cant get him back by chasing him either. There are many other people who love you and you should take advantage of their love and support. Hang out with your family and friends and find other things to take your mind off your ex boyfriend.

To get your ex boyfriend back after the breakup, you have to spark his interest again. Show him that you can get along without him is a good way to make him think of you again. But first, you need to do everything possible to lift your spirits and regain your confidence. One of the best ways to do this, is to pamper yourself and make yourself as desirable as you possibly can.

Visit a good salon and get the works. A new hair style and maybe even a different color. Get a massage, facial, manicure and pedicure. Next go shopping for new clothes that will accent your new look. When you get dressed in your new clothes and look in the mirror, it will immediately revive your spirits and your self confidence, but don't stop there.

Go out with your friends and show yourself off. Don't date other guy, at least just yet, but you can do plenty of flirting. If you happen to run into your ex boyfriend, don't get into a conversation with him, but don't ignore him either. Give him a big smile and then leave as soon as possible. Next you need other things to occupy your spare time, something you enjoy doing and that will be constructive.

If you are still in school dig into your studies and try to get better grades. If you have a job, take more interest in your work. You might want to take up a hobby, or a good confidence booster is helping others. Doing volunteer work can make you feel needed and help rid you of the feeling of rejection. Your ex boyfriend will be sure to notice these activities and decide to contact you.

This is not getting revenge, but you should not take his phone calls or answer his emails and text messages until you are sure you can talk to him without crying. When you do feel strong enough to talk to your ex, you should be cheerful and just before you end the conversation, tell him you think the breakup was a good idea. This will make him feel the rejection you have been feeling. You might also decide you don't want him back. But if you do give it another try, never let him think he owns you again.