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Quickest Ways to Lose Your Girl

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So, you've finally gone and asked that cutie in the office for a date.
And she even said YES.
She's on the hook, now all you have to do is get her in the boat, so to speak.
And it is here that you will most likely mess up royally, lose her and be back at the well known Square One (I must tell you, gentle reader, I HATE Square One).
"Hang on here," you say, "how can you be so sure?" I can be sure because of two things: one, years of (sometimes painful) experience and two I teach this stuff and I've seen this happen time and again with clients.
One of the best things about most of us is that we are RELIABLE.
However, this can also lead to one of the main reasons some of us lose our girls and that is being PREDICITBLE.
What do I mean when I say predictible? Basically, when we're trying to woo a woman, most of us tend to do the same things over and over again.
Such as, showing up for the first date with a rose or chocolates, making the first date a dinner and movie (because that just hasn't been done TO DEATH), things like that.
Instead, design a date based on HER interests and make sure she doesn't know.
This way you will achieve two goals: first you will instantly gain points with her for NOT being "like all the other guys.
" And second, you will gain massive points as this shows you were...
wait for it..
..
PAYING ATTENTION to her enough to know her interests.
This is huge.
So what is another way you can lose your girl? One that comes to mind is being a doormat.
What I mean by this is basically giving up who you are just to try and please her or be more like the guy you THINK she wants.
This is the second quickest way to big trouble.
True, there are compromises to be made in any relationship, but you must retain who you are as a person as that is what makes you unique and is a key point as to why a certain girl is with you.
A bit of tension in any relationship is a good thing as this way you both know the limits of the other person.
Most girls, unless they are truly spoiled like a little backbone in their men.
Its just no fun otherwise.
Lastly, a BIG no-no is calling her all the time.
This paints you as needy and clingy and that is NOT attractive.
A brief story here: I knew this girl in high school.
Very pretty, smart, fun to be around.
We hit it off.
For a while things were good.
Then I for some reason (I still don't know why to this day) I decided that calling her up every morning in the summer was a romantic thing to do.
Boy was I wrong.
She got fed up and as a result we were just friends from then on.
So, when you call her make sure that a) you've got things to talk about and b) that you space it out, like 1 call every three days or so.
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