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The selection process is usually a lot easier for men than women because men tend to be exacting in their intent while women are accommodating.
Generally, women are also more emotional in their decision-making and, as a result, get attached quicker and fall harder.
Men on the other hand know what they want within minutes of meeting a prospect and will pursue a relationship or relent pursuit with reckless abandon.
Want to avoid being misled, hurt or disappointed? Apply these five keys to successful dating.
State your intentions and expectations upfront--be honest.
Don't wait until the third or fourth warning sign to make a turn.
Stop at the first warning sign and address it.
If you do not get an appropriate response and corresponding action that speak to a willingness to change or commit, back up and move in another direction.
You're either dealing with the wrong person or the timing is wrong.
While change will be necessary in order to gel, don't change who you are for the sake of someone else.
That may sound like a contradiction but it is true.
When change occurs, it should be genuine, relevant and not cause you to compromise your core values.
It's always good to be friends first or be in a group of friends (instead of isolated).
You can watch a person's responses, see any inconsistencies, and hear what people say about them without being attached.
Do not be unequally yoked.
People of the same faith, social status or experience can still be an unsuitable match.
Not being the best fit is often the result of different mindsets, immaturity, lack of understanding, and an unwillingness to learn so that growth can occur.
Go with the person who loves you enough to work and make the relationship better -- someone who is truly a great friend and a reflection of you--is the best measure for selecting the right person to date.
The adage is true, you know in your heart if the person is right or not.
You long to be with them, all systems say, "Go" and there is no hesitation despite faults or imperfection.
You're willing to learn, grow and change as the relationship progresses and of course, you're physically attracted to the person.
They are your heart's desire..
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When someone loves you, they desire the best for you and don't like to see you hurt and vice-versa.
Love is the catalyst for their actions.
If that's not the case, then the person you're pursuing is not a best fit and it's time to take a step in a new direction.
For the sake of everyone involved, let go and move on.
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