Co-Ed Dorms and Other Fun College Experiences

How would you like to shower with that hot freshman who just moved into your dorm? That's not just a random voyeuristic fantasy question but rather a serious query faced by many college kids today in a milieu that has brought new meaning to the old hippie mantra, "If it feels good, do it!" Back in the olden days-like a few generations ago-colleges and universities were expected to act in loco parentis, serving as parental surrogates and enforcing what was then considered the norms of societal views on interpersonal relationships and often took that responsibility to the extreme.
Instead of simply mandating that doors be left open when boys visited girls' rooms, suitors were stopped at front entrances to girls' dormitories by gestapo-trained guards who sternly sent them on their merry, horny ways, curfews were strictly enforced, and behavior was rigidly dictated.
On the distaff side, females would no sooner approach a male dorm than they would pick up a phone and call a guy.
Times have changed, which may be the understatement of the twenty first century when applied to our institutions of somewhat higher learning where most real learning takes place not in classrooms but behind closed dorm doors, where calculus and theoretical geophysics take a back seat behind personal anatomical exploration and applied sexuality.
The relatively new phenomenon and serious ramifications for females of the human species of "hooking up"-a collegiate euphemism for sharing one's intimate wealth with either "friends with benefits" or with guys girls met that night at a keg or frat party, or a frat, keg party-has already been discussed in this space.
Girls are by far the principal victims of the new and rampant hooking up promiscuity.
Males never have to stride "the tart walk.
" If anything, they regard hooking up, and the occasional orgy, as the greatest advancements in collegiality since the invention of The Pill.
The companion phenomenon to hooking up, co-ed dormitories, are another worst dream of many parents who naively send their young Janies off to college to get an education and grow into full adulthood and will make parental heads spin.
Their young Janies may have much less lofty visions than education and maturation.
They may have visions of quarterbacks dancing in their heads and, even if they don't, they may have quarterbacks dancing in their showers and may experience even worse consequences.
Alyssa Cordova and Camille Hart offer parents a disturbing wake-up call if they really believe their kids will retain and practice the moral values they painstakenly instilled, thought they instilled, in their cherubs.
They "have no idea that universities have become Ground Zero for the anything-goes sexual culture.
An 18-year-old student entering college is likely to soon face bowls of condoms at freshman orientation, coed living, sex fairs, and courses where students 'study' pornographic films...
Outrageous sexual behavior quickly becomes the norm...
A culture of wild promiscuity is accepted and encouraged by colleges.
This culture has led to a health crisis, leaving young people both physically and emotionally scarred.
" Coedova and Hart point out that such scarring is irrelevant or at best incidental to "University administrations [which] completely disregard the well-being of young people.
The mere fact that an 18-year-old freshman is a legal adult, doesn't make him or her unworthy or ineligible of care and guidance on making healthy decisions that will shape the people they become:" http://tiny.
cc/50pg9 You see, health and normality aren't priorities in academia, absolute freedom and total abandon are, and they are directly related to political correctness run amok, to women's liberation gaining a new ascendancy, and, ironically, to emasculation of the American male which may be achieving that goal but at a serious, perhaps irreversible, cost to the American female.
And you thought sexting and teen pre-marital sex and std's were problematic? Just wait til Janie brings home that illiterate football player she met in the shower and pulls out pictures of that cute transgendered guy he was with!