A Guy"s Guide to Moving On and Starting Over

A breakup is never easy, whether you are into Thai dating or not. It drains you in all aspects€"emotionally, physically, and psychologically. Not only that, it makes you feel as if there is no more hope in this world and that you are bound for a life full of misery and unhappiness. It is normal to feel that way especially if you have invested a good amount of time, effort, and money to someone who you thought you would spend the rest of your life with. But as what they say, there is no use crying over spilled milk. You can cry and sulk but after some time, you need to get your life back together.

Do you need help moving on and starting over? Here are some tips that you can use:

• Now that you are all by yourself (and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that), you have more time to do the things that you have always wanted to do be it traveling to exotic destinations like Thailand to meet Thai girls or finally pursue your masters degree. Go ahead and do whatever you have been putting off to do while you were still in a relationship. This is a pretty good tactic to help yourself get distracted.


• It is very important that you get proper closer. You can never fully heal unless you have settled all your issues and answered all the questions. You two can talk it out if you're both up for it. We're not suggesting that you two should become friends after everything. What we're trying to say is that you need to reconcile.


• While it is very tempting to dive back into the dating pool and go out with beautiful Thai girls, it is best that you let yourself rest for a bit. There is no need to rush. Moving on doesn't mean jumping into another relationship. Just enjoy being single for a little while. As per Elvis Presley, only fools rush in.


• You know how they always say that you should get her off completely out of your life? Well, this article is going to tell you the opposite of that. As a matter of fact, we are going to tell you to surround yourself with things and stuff that remind you of her. Why? Because we want you to embrace the pain until it no longer hurts. Cutting her out of your life will only make you develop more residual feelings. First step to starting over? Don't let the things that have hurt you hurt you more.


Note: Just because you need to surround yourself with things that remind you of her doesn't mean you need to call her every five minutes. That's already called obsession. Draw a thick, very visible line, mate.

• Guys don't like talking about feelings but you should just give it a try. Pretty sure you have friends or you know a couple of Thailand personals who are very much willing to listen to your lovesick babbles over a few drinks. Studies have shown that girls cope better with breakups because they express their emotions more. There's no harm in trying.

Life is too short to hold on to things that bring you misery. Let go of the things that hurt you and make room for those that can make you happy. Yes, it is hard to move on and start over but it's totally doable. Just believe in yourself and think positive.