Flirting Tips For Men To Use On Women - How To Get Her To Open Up To You!

Flirting and conversation pretty much are intertwined. If you are flirting with a woman, chances are, you are talking to her. Sure, there are ways to flirt using body language (and those can be incredibly effective), but more often than not, a conversation is going to be the main way that most guys flirt with a woman. And it's also where most guys are going to end up losing her interest.

Hate to be a buzz kill there, but it's kind of the truth. When most guys talk to women, they start losing points with her right off the bat. One of the reasons for this is that they end up directing the conversation into a boring area for her, and once that happens, well she naturally is going to lose interest.

Getting a woman to OPEN UP to you can be an easy and effective way to keep her intention where it belongs, which is with YOU.

Here are 3 flirting tips for men on how to get a woman to open up to you:

1. Ask provocative questions and wait for her response.

The way that most men approach talking to women, is they are deathly afraid of asking anything that might not be a "safe" topic with her. The problem there is, you end up with some pretty boring banter, and no one remembers a conversation that they had that was boring. And if they do, they don't remember it fondly. You need to be able to get her to reveal a little more about herself, and using provocative questions can be a good way to do this, and still make the conversation anything but boring.

2. Relate to her.

People (not just women), open up to others that they feel they can relate to. So, if she tells you something like, "Oh I hate this song," that is playing in the club, relate to her by agreeing. Just make sure that it is something that you really can relate to, because eventually you will end up letting the cat and the truth out the bag if you are just saying anything to agree with her.

3. Make the conversation lightly sexual.

The reason why I say lightly sexual, is because when you tell a guy to make a conversation sexual with a woman, he usually ends up getting a little "nasty." Most women, fun women anyway, kind of like to have sexual conversations, the thing is-- they are more subtle about it.