Signs That Tell You Your Husband Is Thinking About Divorce

Every couple has arguments and days when they feel like they never want to see each other again.
That's normal for healthy couples who just need to blow off some steam.
By the next day they'll be over their disagreement and going on with their happy marriage.
Other times, however, these arguments can be indicative of major fissures that are forming within the relationship, and these can be serious if they aren't addressed.
There's a fine line between the two, and you need to be aware when you've crossed the line and need to get serious about saving your marriage.
So how do you know when your spouse is already thinking about divorce? If you feel like your husband isn't giving you the attention he once did to the point where he pretty much ignores you or leaves the room when you enter, you may be seeing the signs of danger.
Maybe you've tried to get him to sit down to a serious conversation about your relationship only to be rebuffed.
Is he willing to listen to you at all, or does he just seem to tune you out? Consider this behavior as warning sign #1.
Is he just ignoring the problems between you instead of being willing to face them head-on? It's possible that he's trying to goad you into becoming so frustrated that you'll take control and seek a divorce instead of forcing him to make the first move in that direction.
A husband like this will probably be countering any questions you throw at him with ambiguous phrases, like "what do you think?" None of this behavior bodes well for the future of your union.
Do you feel like your husband is watching everything you do very carefully as if hoping he's going to catch you making a mistake? He's looking for a reason to start a verbal battle in order to ease his exit from you and your marriage, a reason that he can blame on you.
He will also emphasize how incompatible the two of you are and state that incompatibility is one of today's leading causes of divorce.
It's possible that your husband is just never around any more.
Even if his excuses for being absent sound plausible, you have to realize that if he really wanted to be with you, he would make it happen.
He'll work long hours and make excuses for being late in coming home.
When he does come home, he'll have reasons, like activities with friends, that will take him away from you again.
You'll feel the great gulf that now divides you and realize that your marriage is on the rocks.
Looking for the signs isn't necessarily going to save your marriage, but it can help you realize what you're up against so that you can seek professional help.